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The first step to reuniting with your significant other that you have lost for whatever reason is to let it go. While this may seem a strange strategy to initially pursue, going away from what you want so much. T.W. Jackson, T-Dub, details in the Magic of Making Up that old cliché; if you love it let it go. The last thing you want to do is make reckless, desperate attempts that will only make you seem pitiful to your lost love. The drunk dials, constant texting, acting like a stalker and randomly showing up at places they frequent will not help you but only hurt you cause. Stepping away, seeming mentally stable, showing some back bone, acting sensibly and not like a lost magic of making up puppy dog are the necessary steps to maintaining the self-image they were attracted to in the first place.  It hurts to let go but it hurts even worse to resign yourself to the fact that it is gone forever. Seeming depressed, pathetic, and unable to survive without them will make them flee as if from the plague